Loneliness, Grief, and the Lack of Belonging

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It seems plausible to maintain that loneliness involves experiencing the lack or absence of something. However, it is less clear what, exactly, is experienced as missing. In this chapter, I take my lead from the phenomenologist and psychiatrist, J. H. van den Berg, who emphasizes a distinctive way of experiencing one’s surroundings. By drawing on some first-person accounts of loneliness in the context of bereavement, I identify a sense of exclusion or detachment from social situations as central to this, something that can equally be described in terms of not belonging. I sketch a phenomenological analysis that emphasizes how we experience possibilities. Certain social and interpersonal possibilities, I propose, appear as accessible to others, but inaccessible to me.
Original languageEnglish
Title of host publicationPhenomenology of Belonging
EditorsLuna Dolezal, Danielle Petherbridge
Place of PublicationAlbany
PublisherSUNY Press
Publication statusAccepted/In press - 31 May 2022

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